The 5 Love Languages : The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
This book is truly life changing!! I'm not actually married yet, but I found this information extremely insightful. My fiancé and I have been together almost 7 years. We're past our "happy giddy all in love" stage and seemed to be in a comfortable and steady spot in our relationship. This book breaks it down in sections based on personality type. It gives you examples from his actual patients on their chrisis at the time, and his advice he gave them to try. everything in this book is legitimate and helpful. Even though my fiancé and I are stable and happy we definitely never new we had two different love languages. The way Gary chapman breaks down each section gives you a true understanding. You'd be surprised how willing your spouse is to listen to your findings in this book. We tried the suggestions he's given his other patients and I must say, we are understanding each other, learning more of one another and things are in a great spot.